You are a Muslim looking for love. Fetishists often treat their partners as if they are merely a vehicle for the fetish. As a devout Muslim man, you’d never treat your husband that way, so you’re a Muslim man looking for someone to share this life and the next with. That kind of treasure is something even a real queen could never buy.

“Potato queen,” not “snow queen.”

Anyways, I dated Bashir Kareem and I was harsh and cruel to him at times. I am one of those sex negative Muslims who has issues with intimacy. I think my attraction to certain fetish scenes prevalent in the gay community is due to my disability to accept myself as gay, yearning to be straight or “normal” and even considering marriage to a foreign overseas wife from the “Old Country” for the sake of preserving face to the greater Muslim community. Such fetish scenes involve anonymity, which allows me to almost detach the physical movement from any true intimacy with the person I share a bed with.

Even if things had worked out between Bashir and I, distance would have been an adversity.

All my prays are for The One.
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Salaam Bro,
I’m a Muhammad Queen (female and straight), although Allah Subhana Ta’ala chose a lazy christian guy for me. Alhamdulillah!

Thanks for the link to the documentary _I didn’t hear about it.

Sister,

Didn’t you hear that some Muslim men who are “guardians” of the faithful would find it unacceptable that a Muslim woman would choose a Christian for a spouse, though Muslim men somehow have the right to engage in interfaith marriages, women are deemed not appropriate for such conjugal relationships.

They would argue that there are differences concerning the role of men and women, and this is validated by some rather well known ayat in the Qur’an.

There are so many contridictions in Islam huh? Well muslim men do alot of things that are wrong, this being one. But the real question here is why should I care that a man chooses to marry a woman he loves. Are we saying that a muslim man doesn’ a t have the right to marry a christian woman, or that because he chooses to exercise this right and frowns on a muslim woman doing the same he’s by definition wrong? I think not. Many cultures are the same. Black men HATE capital H when a black woman is with a white man, I don’t care how progressive they are, and many of them have white wives and girlfriends, its just something that digs deep into the diapora and slavery experience that cuts to the gut. Maybe its something like that? Maybe not. Either way rather than toss this out as some sort of tit for tat thing, lets just level the playing field. Most of the interfaith marriages muslim men involve themselves in quickly become solidly muslim so whats the beef? The problem is if a woman marries a man who is Christian its more likely she will take on her spouses religion and therefore there is one less muslim household and a few less muslim children. What is ayat in the Quran that supports muslim men marrying a believer but doesn’t allow this for the muslimahs

This how genius the media is….

they can somehow confuse a perfectly normal straight men into believing that he is somehow gay?

It is simple…
God Made it like this or more preferable ‘Mother Nature’ made like this…

A dick yearns to go inside a willing vagina!
A Vagina yearns for Dick to come in!

A dick and a dick will never come inside of each others except to find real shit!

ya know, Maybe all this gay loving homo promotion is just one way to implement population control towards it’s citizens meanwhile weakening the power of family institution and making people too be more indivulistic and less comunal and cn be later make an easy picking? Now that is waht we call real progression in society!!!

PS:// Remember faggot with faggot can never produce another faggot! So being Gay is your choice not something you are born with!

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Do you not feel even an ounce of shame, when you disgrace the Prophet’s name and legacy with your words and deeds?

He is the leader of all of mankind and the best of creation (may Allah shower him with peace and blessings).

Also, you might not have noticed but….homosexuality is a sin – according to Allah and his beloved Messenger. i don’t make the laws and neither do you.

you may ask who gave me the authority to say this – and my reply will be none other than Allah and his Messenger… if i see/hear something that contradicts Islam, so long as i fully understand the context and exact meaning, I have the right to preach. in fact all muslims do.

All that is required of us is willful submission to Allah not our desires.

Daughter of Islam, do you feel any shame when you berate your brother in Islam, for desiring a Muslim spouse with which to dwell in tranquility and complete his deen? And no, you don’t make, interpret, or enforce the laws, so why not focus on what is your task- making sure that your words and deeds are in compliance with the law, to the best of your ability?
So, Bashir: any news on the romance front? And have you read “Swish: My Quest to Become the Gayest Person Ever” by Joel Derfner?

‘fashion mujhid’

not really, no.

why? because i love the Prophet more than i love the entire world put together, so long story short…. this brother is nothing in comparison to the Prophet (may Allah shower the Messenger with peace and blessings).

Also I love Allah more than the Prophet therefore, this brother is ABSOLUTELY nothing in comparison to my love for Allah.

its ironic because although i will NEVER condone homosexuality, you seem to think that i am more offended by his homosexuality than his use of the Prophet’s name. not quite so.
i don’t like people diisgracing the Messenger’s legacy. period.

.....by prefixing the word ‘queen’ with the beloved messenger’s name, this guy is insulting the messenger and all muslims and this is where the ‘shame’ was diirected.

ALso

you need to stop for a second amd open the qur’an. i may not make the laws but i (and ALL muslims, NOT JUST ME), have been tasked with promoting Islam the way the Prophet and his Companions had practiced it.

you want evidence?

surah 103

By time,
Man is in a state of loss
Except those who believe and do good works, AND EXHORT ONE ANOTHER TO TRUTH AND EXHORT ONE ANOTHER TO ENDURANCE.

finally, just for the sake of clarity….

i will never question someone’s sincerity in their acts of worship.
i will however question someone’s OVERALL commitment to the deen if their actions contradict the faith and, you know what?
i expect to be questioned by others…. maybe that’s the difference between you and i.

wassalaam

Where in the Qur’an are you mandated to venerate the Prophet more than any other human being?

I thought the Qur’an stressed worshiping the one true God, to express admiration for the Prophets is one thing, but to have feelings for them that borderline on worshiping them, is no different when a Christian claims Christ is Lord.

Well, then, Daughter of Islam, when was the last time you volunteered your service for the sake of God? When was your last charitable donation? For if you read all of the Qur’an, and not just the parts that let you be nosy, you’d find more about helping those in need than you seem to be aware of. Instead of leaping in to judge with an excess of umbrage and a shortage of knowledge, why not attend to those that the Qur’an repeatedly exhorts you to mind- that is, your own soul, and those who are vulnerable and/or in need.

gustavomustafa:

yes, you’re right. no one is deserving of worship except Allah…. and i never said otherwise. He created us and He made Islam easy for us. Alhamdhulillahi rabbil ‘alameen. in fact, i’m covering old ground…if you read my entire post you would have found that i love Allah MORE than the Messenger.
Also further to your point… its not about choosing between Allah and His beloved Messenger. Of course only Allah is deserving of worship and if worship is directed to anyone including the Messenger, then such a person will have committed the greatest sin in Islam.
However this does not negate the fact that loving the Messenger is fundamental to the faith.
but to what extent should we love him?
well, if we turn to the Qur’an we find…
...‘Say (o, Muhammad) if you love Alalh, follow me; Allah will love you and forgive you your sins. Allah is forgiving, Merciful’ (3:31)
...also the Prophet himself has said that ‘None of you has faith unless I am dearer to him than his father and his son and all of mankind’
...and he also said that loving him more than yourself is the proper degree of faith

so, as you can see we should have a great love for the Prophet, but we should never worship him.
My question to you then, is do you love the Messenger more than yourself? you don’t have to answer me, its something you need to ask yourself.

Fashion mujahid:
i am not one to boast about the things that i do for the sake of Allah – i’m sure you know that its the sunnah to conceal your good deeds. i try my best to follow the qur’an and sunnah and implement it in any way that i can. whatever shortcomings i have, i always turn to Allah to rectify for me. My Islam encompasses my ENTIRE life, not just charity

also i find it highly amusing that not once in any of my posts have i judged a person. i have tried to stress throughout this little cyber-argument that i never question a person’s sincerity. in fact its YOU that’s been doing all the judging about me. how do you know i don’t give in charity? how do you know whether or not i do extra prayers and fasts? how do you know what trials i face in trying to seek knowledge of the deen? the fact is you don’t. and i don’t want you to either. my deeds are for Allah.
NOT YOU, NEVER YOU.

i seek validation in Islam, you seek excuses.

Daughter of Islam: You twist and contradict yourself in every post. I will spare you the further sight of the weakness of your position. Have a nice life.

dude, i’m the one who contradicts????

your name is ‘fashion mujahid’, a contradiciton in itself.

if i contradict in EVERY post, how come you only bothered to mention it now? i really could do with your insight here.

weakness? i never said that i was infallible. maybe you thought i did.

it doesn’t matter really, Allah guides whom He wills and leads astray whom He wills.
He is the judge between us all.

May he inspire us to spread the truth however ugly it may appear to others.